Pamela Rae Newsletter
December

Love Bank Statement

 

 



We are emotionally attracted to people with positive balances and repulsed by those with negative balances. This is the way our emotions encourage us to be with people who seem to treat us well, and avoid those who seem to hurt us.  The feeling of love is the way our emotions encourage us to spend more time with someone who takes especially good care of us -- someone who is effective at making us happy and knows how to avoid making us unhappy.  If Love Bank balances drop below the romantic love threshold, a couple not only lose their feeling of passion for each other, but they lose their instinct to make each other happy.

If a couple wants to have a happy and fulfilling relationship, they must make as many Love Bank deposits as possible and avoid making withdrawals. To achieve this, behavior must change. A couple must learn how to make each other happy, and how to stop making each other unhappy.


Sources
 http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi3200_love.html
https://fayferriscounsellor.wordpress.com/2011/04/14/the-love-bank-simple-concept-to-improve-relationships/   

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